A LETTER FOR ALL THOSE WHO FEEL HOPELESS IN LIFE

This is a letter intended for all those who feels that they have got stuck in life and seems to be hopeless. Especially for that person who doesn’t believe if their life would get better. That person who has been trying hard so long to bring changes, but, hasn’t been able to…

If that’s you, you’re not alone and this letter I’m writing for you!

To My Friend,

I know things have been actually tough. Everyday appears to be the same and you, feeling helpless want to screech from top of your lungs, because life sucks. Everyday you just feel that you have been dragging downward. You just think that your life starts to take a U-turn soon, but, doesn’t happens and finally, most of the times thoughts of suicide have crossed your mind.

But, mind it, life does get better if you want to.

My dear friend…. Once, I was like you, searching for that one single thing I was thought to do with my life. I was looking for a career, not just only a job. When I turned 30, I still had no idea and wondered what was wrong with me. I usually felt that if I knew what I wanted to do with my life, everything would have been better. Is it something to get married, have a nice house, have kids and live happily ever after? Is that the thing I have been asking from my life?

But, afterwards. I’ve learnt that life doesn’t have to be finding that one single thing you are meant to do and then revolve around it forever. Some people get to find that one thing and dedicate their entire life because they love it. I’ve realized that isn’t meant for me at this moment.

To me life is about exploring new things daily. It’s like trying different things and putting attention on certain ones. There is so much to grab that it would definitely be shame to not have more than one interest. Is it what I’m doing now will be doing forever? Noo, but, I have found something that I enjoy at this moment. I know that new opportunities will present itself and my need for facing that new challenge will come along. Who knows what I’ll be doing five years from now, but, for now I like what I do.

If you are uncertain about what you want to do with your life, it’s OKAY! The answer doesn’t come to you at specific times. Some find it when they are child, others, when they had three children. It hardly matters whether you’re 21 or 41. The only thing that matters is how passionate you are.

However, a better life isn’t going to be found watching television, mindlessly surfing the net or checking Facebook every 5-10 minutes. It is not found resting on the couch after work every night or gulping your sorrows on weekend with your buddies. Your life is never gonna improve if you feel sorry for yourself and rely on others to make it better for you.

Your life can’t be better instantly. As everything is available on just a single click, we expect our life to happen the same, isn’t it? So, what will it take? I know you don’t want to hear, but, trust me it just take a single day. The worst thing for you is that, despite of consistent practice you don’t see any difference in results. I know that’s frustrating. But, here is the point where people quit. They feel that the effort they are putting is just a waste of time. When you are doing right things, keep on doing, as small consistent actions over time will definitely give tremendous results. Mind it that life is testing you and will certainly kick off the weak ones, while only the determined ones will be survived and rewarded handsomely.

Let’s take an example:

The guy eyeing a cute girl is definitely going home alone, if he practices his conversation only in his mind, waits for the right moment to come, waits for the confidence, checks his breath and waits till her friends leave. By then he’ll hesitate for so long, he’ll reject himself before even trying.

That’s similar with life too. The longer you wait, the longer you go back to your regular life with same old shit.

So, the person that is going to be responsible for everything you want to create in your life is that face you see in mirror every single day. It is that good looking face you see. It is the one who had big hopes and dreams, but, lost after years of self-doubt. When you need to be reminded who is gonna save your life, look at yourself in the mirror.

It’s time to quit your excuses, your complaining, finger pointing and start to do something. Life moves very fast. You are not going to achieve everything at one time, but focus on the area of your life and work on changing it in the way you want first.

You are responsible for everything in your life, and because of that power, you have the life what you have always dreamt off.

Play Schools in Shahdara

Finding the most appropriate play school for your kid is one of the most difficult tasks of all times. I can say this from my personal experience, I am a mother of a 3 year old daughter, and she studies in a play school now. I remember the problems I faced exactly one year ago, when I was looking for play school for my daughter. It is always considered important for a parent to know all about play schools and day schools in his/her respective area, but trust me this is not an easy task! Today, I am sharing my story with you, so that when the right time comes, you are prepared for your little angel’s admission.

Kids are born with special talents and this is the duty of parents to recognize their hidden talents and nurture them with utmost care.  Along with parents, it is also the responsibility of teachers or school to look after a child’s capabilities. This is where choosing the right school comes into play. Day school or play school, both are the places where a child will go to learn something new every day. Providing that new spark every morning to the child can show how interested your child will become in attending school. So, choose your kid’s school wisely.

My personal experience-

I put up in Shahdara, where there are thousands of schools to choose from. But for my child, I wanted the best play school in Shahdara. This was not only my desire, but is the dream of thousands of parents residing in any locality. Although play schools in Shahdara have a lot to offer for a child, they provide everything from cab facility to ac rooms, everything, yet I was looking for something very interesting and engaging.

I was following usual methods of searching a school, I was talking to friends, looking at pamphlets, visiting schools, and doing all the things that went in vain. The most important task then was to find out what my daughter wanted. I always knew she loved colors and crayons, she likes using colors herself. I wanted the best play school in Shahdara which could lay her base of painting and art. So, I decided to move a step ahead and look vigorously for appropriate schools. After searching a lot, I found a list of schools through which showed facilities available in every school. I specifically looked for art and craft classes and, luckily, found schools which were offering what I always wanted.

While I was doing my school search, I heard a lot of suggestions for admitting my daughter in a Day boarding school. Parents are now very much willing to send their child to day boarding schools. It is indeed a great option, as the child can stay there, safe and sound in absence of parents. The only thing bothered me was that the best day boarding school in Shahdara did not lie in my vicinity. My daughter would have to travel a lot for attending her school. So, keeping the day boarding aside, I decided to go for play school only. When I found out schools of my choice, I was delighted as well as confused. The whole search left me thinking about three best play schools of Shahdara that provided great art and craft classes. The schools that caught my interests were-

Sanfort Play School

The school is located at E-21, Naveen Shahdara Opp. Tikona Park Delhi – 110032. Sanfort Play School is a part of country’s best play school chain. The whole chain of play schools is operating in our country since a long time. The school is known for recognizing talent of children and providing them the best environment for overall development. It provides different types of facilities for children. Art and craft, splash pool, dance classes are conducted in school. They also provide cab facility for children.

Bachpan Play School

Bachpan play school is located at 1/6972 Shivaji Park Opp. Agarwal Store – 110032, Shahdara,   Nearest Metro Station: Shahdara. The school is very popular in the locality and everyone praises the school for its teaching as well as facilities. The school also has a play area for conducting out-door activities for children. They provide pick and drop service for children. Bachpan play school also provides special classes like art and craft, splash pool, painting etc. Every parent who admitted his/her child to this school praises the school for everything.

Decorum Play school

Decorum play school is located at 1 / 5867- C, East Rohtash Nagar, Shahdara Near Raghunath Mandir – 110032, Shahdara, Nearest Metro Station: Shahdara. With keen focus on fun with learning, the school is gaining popularity in Shahdara. It has now become a wonderland for kids where they play, enjoy and learn along. This school also provides special art and craft classes for children, other activities like sports, academics are also focused. The school is well known for its attractive activities.

Out of these schools, I chose the best one for my daughter by my family’s suggestion. Hoe you also make your move right. It is also important for every parent to read reviews of each school, before deciding the final one. All the best for your child’s admission!